Are you tired of trying Chapman's "love languages" with no lasting results?
After 13+ years of biblical marriage counseling, Joe Soares exposes why popular Christian marriage advice is failing couples—and reveals the ONE source of true marital transformation.
✓ Includes workbook sections for personal study
✓ Perfect for small groups and marriage classes
✓ Backed by solid biblical theology
✓ Real solutions that actually work
Available in Print, Kindle, and Audiobook formats on Amazon
"Based on the worldwide bestseller The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, millions of Christian couples have tried to strengthen their marriages using Chapman's tools and principles. Many have left confused and disillusioned—searching for, but unable to find, lasting relief and deeper connection."
If you've read Chapman's book and still feel:
You're not alone. And it's not your fault.
Reveals why Chapman's Five Love Languages keeps couples trapped in self-focus instead of leading them to Christ-centered transformation.
Every principle is rooted in Scripture, not psychology or human wisdom. Includes extensive biblical references and study materials.
Not just theory—includes workbook sections, discussion questions, and actionable steps for real marital growth.
Designed for couples' Bible studies, marriage classes, and small group settings with built-in discussion materials.
Points couples away from emotional scorekeeping toward the power of the Gospel to truly transform marriages.
Proven principles from 13+ years of actual marriage counseling through MarriageHotline911.com
"We tried the love languages approach for years with no real change. This book opened our eyes to what was missing—Christ at the center of our marriage. Our relationship has been transformed!"
- Sarah & Mark T.
"As a pastor, I've been recommending Chapman's book for years. After reading Joe's biblical analysis, I realized I was leading couples astray. This is now my go-to marriage resource."
- Pastor David L.
"Finally, someone who addresses the real issues in Christian marriage! This book doesn't just give band-aid solutions—it goes to the heart of the problem."
- Michelle R.
"After more than thirteen years of biblically counseling husbands—and with my wife, counseling wives—we've seen thousands of Christian marriages on the brink. They don't come through our doors—they reach out via phone through MarriageHotline911.com. The calls come from confused, discouraged, and desperate spouses. Many have read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and other popular Christian books, hoping for relief. But they leave even more entangled—still empty, still blaming, still enslaved to emotional needs..."
Yes. It explains why that approach falls short and provides a biblical, Christ-centered path to marital transformation.
Yes. The book includes workbook sections for personal or small-group study.
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Every day you wait is another day your marriage suffers under man-made solutions instead of experiencing God's transforming power.
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